‘Why Can’t I Stop Thinking About My High School Crush?’

What is within your control is how you handle the crush. Do you obsess over it, or do you just acknowledge it and then carry on with your life? Note that in this piece, we are focusing on couples in monogamous, exclusive relationships.

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Most days, we take the bus home together because he stays a few blocks away from my house. We were almost inseparable during our last senior year. Now that we are in college, our love has grown stronger. It is our second year of dating and we hope to get married someday. We were going to get our fairy tale ending after college. I was all Derrick until my English teacher introduced a transfer student, Kyle, who had just moved to South Carolina, to the class. He had come from Charleston.

He was blonde and tall and cute. I took an instant liking. I thought about what it would feel like kissing him. I mean, I had a boyfriend whom I loved so much.